Few days back i was completely frustrated. When i see people who are remarkable or doing something which is appreciated by the society, a worm inside me get up and ask me question when you will do something which will have some significant impact and all the time this conversation ends with the question that 1. yaar what should i do to be remarkable " 2. what should i do so that i could be on television" 3. what should i do to get the treatment like bollywood celebrities" 4. what should i do to be famous" 5.what should i do to have a good earnings" and after sometime surrounded by these questions i get tired and go for sleep after not getting the satisfactory answer of my problem. The problems doesn't end here, whenever i see television show like Indian Idol i start feeling like singer, after a moment when i see dance India Dance then i feel like a dancer, when i see movies like Rocky series then i feel like a wrestler, when i see the movie like guru then i feel myself as a business men.
The conclusion is that : we all wanted to be great and wanted to feel like celebrity and we are having lots of options for becoming remarkable.
but when we are having so many options then why we are not living the life of our dream. Following are the answers with the problem 1.lack of confidence : this problem arises because when we about to start something big then we have some fear, fear of losing but for that i have quote which is said by James Neil " Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear". For that one of my teacher " Govind Mishra ji" told me that to get confidence and courage do say two words " AANE DO " I.E. no matter how big the situation or problem is just say " let it come" and yes one more technique which i learnt from Robin Sharma was about " Burn your bridges".
My personal opinion : there is nothing so called " overconfidence ". if get then your confidence is known by the name of confidence and when you fails then your confidence is known by the name of overconfidence. Conclusion : manzil chun lo and jo bhi problem aae use kaho " aane do " thanks to Govind Mishra sir.( just make a goal and then say welcome to every problem) 2. Focus : After choosing a goal then put you all energy for pursuing it because we all know that focus of sunlight at one point can burn a paper. 3. What to do to be famous or wealthy: We all are surrounded by a lot of peoples who are having so many ideas but no power to execute them. So the plan is simple take any idea and execute that it in such a manner that no one can even try to compare with you.
My opinion: One thing that can make you different from other is your level of execution. THIS IS WHAT I LEARN FROM THE STORY OF FACEBOOK THAT IF PEOPLE AROUND YOU ARE HAVING A LOT OF IDEAS BUT NOT THE COURAGE TO EXECUTE THEM. YOU ARE HAVING A BEAUTIFUL CHANCE TO TAKE THE ADVANTAGE AND BECOME SUCCESSFUL. NO MATTER IF YOU ARE NOT THAT MUCH INNOVATIVE BUT IF YOU ARE A GOOD EXECUTIONER OF IDEAS THEN YOU WILL BE SUCCESSFULL. Regards Ankur Universal subscribe the blog for further articles. suggestions are always welcome
In our lives we can find the situation when we get stuck in our past because of any wrong decision made by us and by that we start ruining our present and future as well.
In India there is a saying " ab pachatye hot kya jab chidiya chug gayi khet " i.e." there is no benefit of regret after loosing"
Sometimes our situation get too much worse when we don't control ourselves and move on from past.
I AM SURE THAT YOU HAD NOTICED THIS OR SIMILAR KIND OF SITUATION IN YOUR LIFE :
1. When a boy/girl broke heart of anyone then it will not be easy to survive from that situation for that boy or girl.
2. When a person fails in any business venture and he goes into depression.
3. When a student fails in exams and got depressed
4. When fathers expect good marks from his son but son fails to do so and father gets upset.
5. When we had financial crisis and we feel complete insecure in this world.
6. When our job is at risk.
7. When you have just wasted the time and didn't prepared for exams
8. Many similar situations.
One basic fact about all the above problems/situation is that they broke us mentally and sometimes put us all in the depression for life long.
It is very natural that we will face all these kind of problems till our life and we can't avoid them. we have to face them in a correct manner so that we don't get into the situation of depression and harm ourselves.
so the golden rule is " Have patience to wait for the right time and have courage to face whatever problems comes to you"
over the time you will get the best solution for the problem if you have the quality of being patient and courage to face the problem.